The terms
The agreement for using The Lady’s Choice, including subscriptions, the limits of AI advice, and how we expect everyone to be treated.
Contents
- Agreeing to these terms
- Who can use the app
- Your account
- Plans, subscriptions and billing
- AI is not professional advice
- Your content
- Acceptable use
- Third party services
- Apple App Store
- Ending your use
- Disclaimers
- Limitation of liability
- Indemnity
- Governing law and disputes
- Changes to these terms
- Contact us
Agreeing to these terms
These terms are an agreement between you and Nicholas Bell, who operates The Lady’s Choice (“we”, “us”). By creating an account or using the app, you agree to them and to our Privacy Policy. If you do not agree, please do not use the app.
Who can use the app
You must be at least 18 years old and able to enter into a binding agreement. The app asks for your date of birth and will not let anyone under 18 finish setting up.
Your account
You can sign up with an email and password, Sign in with Apple, or Sign in with Google. Keep your sign in details private. You are responsible for what happens in your account. Tell us at support@theladyschoice.com if you think someone else has used it.
Plans, subscriptions and billing
- Free and Pro. Some features are free with usage limits. The Lady’s Choice Pro unlocks more, as described in the app at the time you subscribe.
- Billed by Apple. Subscriptions are purchased through Apple’s App Store and charged to your Apple ID when you confirm the purchase. We never see your payment details.
- Auto renewal. Your subscription renews automatically at the same length and the price then in effect, unless you turn off auto renew at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Your Apple ID is charged within 24 hours before each renewal.
- Cancelling. Cancel any time in your iPhone’s Settings, tap your name, then Subscriptions. You keep Pro until the end of the period you have paid for. Deleting the app or your account does not cancel a subscription.
- Free trials. If a free trial is offered, it turns into a paid subscription when it ends unless you cancel at least 24 hours before then.
- Refunds. Refunds are handled by Apple under its policies. You can request one at reportaproblem.apple.com.
- Price changes. If a price changes, Apple will let you know as its rules require, and you can cancel before the new price applies.
AI is not professional advice
The Lady’s Choice uses AI to offer reads, suggestions and perspective on dating and style. It is for information and entertainment only. It is not therapy, counselling, medical, legal, financial or safety advice, and it is not a substitute for a qualified professional.
AI can be wrong, incomplete or misread a situation, and it only knows what you share. Use your own judgement, especially about your safety and wellbeing. Decisions about who you see, what you say and where you go are yours. When meeting someone new, meet in a public place and tell a friend your plans. If you are in danger or crisis, call 911 or your local emergency number, or call or text 988 in the US.
Your content
You own what you put into the app: your notes, messages, screenshots and images. You give us permission to store and process it, including sending it to our service providers as described in the Privacy Policy, only to run the app for you. That permission ends when you delete the content or your account, except for copies kept briefly in backups.
You are responsible for your content, including what you share about other people. Only upload messages, profiles and images you have the right to share, and never use the app to expose or harm anyone.
Acceptable use
Please do not:
- use the app to harass, stalk, threaten, intimidate or harm anyone;
- upload intimate images of anyone, or any content involving a minor;
- share someone’s private information to expose or embarrass them;
- upload anything unlawful, or that infringes someone else’s rights;
- try to get around plan limits, access other accounts, or probe, overload or interfere with our systems;
- copy, resell, scrape or reverse engineer the app, or use it to build a competing product;
- use the AI features to produce content that is illegal or abusive.
We may remove content or suspend accounts that break these rules.
Third party services
The app relies on other companies, including Apple, Google, Anthropic, Supabase, RevenueCat and Resend. Their services have their own terms, and we are not responsible for them. Weather information is provided by Apple Weather, and venue information by Google, and either may be inaccurate.
Apple App Store
If you downloaded the app from the App Store:
- these terms are between you and us, not Apple, and we, not Apple, are responsible for the app and its content;
- your licence is to use the app on Apple devices you own or control, as allowed by the App Store usage rules;
- Apple has no obligation to provide maintenance or support for the app;
- if the app fails to meet any applicable warranty, you may notify Apple, and Apple will refund the purchase price, if any; Apple has no other warranty obligation;
- Apple is not responsible for any claims relating to the app, including product liability, legal or regulatory compliance, consumer protection or privacy claims;
- if anyone claims the app infringes their intellectual property, we, not Apple, are responsible for dealing with it;
- you confirm you are not in a country subject to a US government embargo, and are not on any US government list of prohibited or restricted parties;
- Apple and its subsidiaries are third party beneficiaries of these terms and may enforce them against you.
Apple’s Standard End User Licence Agreement also applies where these terms do not cover something.
Ending your use
You can stop using the app at any time and delete your account in Settings, Delete Account. We may suspend or end your access if you break these terms or if we need to for legal reasons, and we may change or stop offering features. If we shut the app down, we will give reasonable notice where we can.
Disclaimers
The app is provided “as is” and “as available”. To the fullest extent the law allows, we make no warranties of any kind, express or implied, including that the app will be uninterrupted, error free or accurate, or that any read, suggestion or outcome will be right for you. We do not screen or vouch for anyone you date.
Limitation of liability
To the fullest extent the law allows, we are not liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential or punitive damages, or for any loss of data, profits or goodwill, or for anything that happens between you and anyone you meet or talk to. Our total liability for any claim relating to the app is limited to the greater of the amount you paid for the app in the twelve months before the claim, or US $50. Some places do not allow these limits, so they may not all apply to you.
Indemnity
You agree to cover our reasonable losses and costs if a claim is brought against us because of your content or your breach of these terms.
Governing law and disputes
These terms are governed by the laws of the State of California, without regard to its conflict of law rules. Any dispute will be resolved in the state or federal courts located in California, and you and we agree to their jurisdiction. Before filing a claim, please email us so we can try to resolve it informally. Nothing here limits rights you have under consumer protection laws that cannot be waived.
Changes to these terms
We may update these terms. We will change the date at the top, and if a change is significant we will tell you in the app before it takes effect. Continuing to use the app after that means you accept the updated terms.
Contact us
Questions about these terms: support@theladyschoice.com
If any part of these terms is found unenforceable, the rest still applies. These terms and the Privacy Policy are the whole agreement between you and us about the app.